What with all the Valentines posts about how wonderful everybody's husbands are... don't get me wrong - I'm happy for those of you who have great guys, and I'm happy you post about them. It just makes me a little... wistful... I guess, about what I thought I had. The thing I've figured out is that even when marriages have rough spots, it's still a privilege to have the opportunity to work through them. If you've got a spouse that loves you and is willing to work with you to resolve problems, you are blessed.